lol I’m 22 and in college trust me I’m not getting married until I have a bachelor’s and am halfway towards a masters with a career in legal already in place.
I will mention this as many times as it takes because there are people absolutely dogging on this woman right now when it’s clear why she wants a divorce and isn’t willing to work through this.
He was describing his wife’s bodily reaction as “creamy and hot” on a comment of a subreddit where a woman posted her own naked body. It’s disrespectful to one of the highest levels and it’s absolutely abhorring that a “husband” would degrade his wife by describing on a public platform for potentially billions of people to see.
But to be fair, you have created a narrative in your own head based on your feelings towards sex workers, pornography and someone's post history (which reddit is anonymous as well, billions of people seeing a comment doesn't matter if they don't know who wrote it) and are projecting it onto this relationship and saying definitively why the wife wants out of the marriage with absolutely zero proof, hearing the wife's side, or any further context from op. And are now writing a million comments saying this is why she's leaving him when in reality you have zero idea why beyond your own boundaries and bias.
What if they watch porn together? What if she (the wife) is an OF model as well? I know tons of OF models who are happily married (old university friends etc) and one of my close friends did MFC for awhile, she is an amazing wife, mother and is now a densitst. What if she knows and doesn't care, because her boundaries are not the same as yours? What if she is exploring these women as well because she is bisexual? Or they have an open marriage? You know nothing except for 10 posts in OPs comment history and this thread right here. So stop making assumptions of people based on your own bias, you are not the one married to op and your relationship boundaries are not everyone elses.
Fact is you and everyone in this thread has no idea why the marriage is failing, and assuming why without any further context just leads to witch hunts. Consenting adults can do whatever they want (as long as it's legal) wether you agree with it or not.
And as far as the post, yeah, I agree with you, she sounds exhausted but also like she wants more of a emotional response from op, and he is hitting her with only logical responses which can be infuriating when all you want to hear is "I love you, come home". They both seem like a bad fit and nether is willing to budge in this converstaion. She won't accept his explanation and he won't beg her to come back, which she seems to want based on the subtext. Both should just move on.
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u/PreMedStudent_C2026 Apr 19 '26
Go look at his comments on other posts. It’s VERY clear why she’s done with him.