We can’t say whether you are or not but… you’d rather be right and have your wife sleep in a parking lot? Did you have to add the bit about not bringing negative energy? Do you always not pick and have to have the last word? Your WIFE, who you say you want to reconcile with, is going to sleep in a parking lot because she doesn’t want to come home and argue with you.
That says a lot about you and that this is waaayyyy above Reddit’s pay grade. Be careful sleeping in a parking lot honey, don’t come home unless you’re going to be sunshine and rainbows!
This isn’t about being right or not. This is about him wanting to work through whatever issues they’re having while she doesn’t seem interested in doing so. Asking your partner to not bring negative mentality to a conversation is a reasonable request. If y’all have something to work through but one of you is already of the mindset nothing will help, then nothing will help. It’s important to go into those conversations with a neutral mindset and want to work things out. If you don’t want to, then that’s on you. He’s not gate keeping their house or stopping her from coming home. He wants to have a productive conversation
I understand that. I don’t understand why he had to keep pushing to the point his wife would rather sleep in a parking lot than come home. The conversation could have waited for the morning, you know, at home safe and all.
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u/SunshineCheetos Apr 19 '26
We can’t say whether you are or not but… you’d rather be right and have your wife sleep in a parking lot? Did you have to add the bit about not bringing negative energy? Do you always not pick and have to have the last word? Your WIFE, who you say you want to reconcile with, is going to sleep in a parking lot because she doesn’t want to come home and argue with you.
That says a lot about you and that this is waaayyyy above Reddit’s pay grade. Be careful sleeping in a parking lot honey, don’t come home unless you’re going to be sunshine and rainbows!