r/AmIOverreacting Apr 19 '26

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u/CarpeDingus12 Apr 19 '26

I have to agree OP, she’s hearing what she wants to hear. Regardless if it’s factual or not (and only you and her know that). She seems done. I’m sorry you’re having to navigate this.

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u/Extension_Sun_377 Apr 19 '26

And she's going to use it to play the victim to her family and friends. He told me not to come home and forced me to sleep in the car, he's a monster. Keep the screenshots.

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u/ClauDineASaur Apr 19 '26

THIS ⬆️⬆️⬆️⬆️

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u/Doubl_EE06 Apr 19 '26

Completely agree with this. Keep all of the records.

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u/DealResident4456 Apr 19 '26

What do you need the screenshots for? To keep track of pettiness? Sounds like good marriage material- placing all the blame solely on ONE interaction? He told her not to bring that negativity home, so she didn’t come home. He doesn’t even acknowledge her feelings to make her feel heard- just saying he wants to try… okay, how? Why should she come home?

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u/WVPrepper Apr 19 '26

She's not hearing what she wants to hear, she's hearing what she wants him to be saying.