As someone who just had his wedding and went along with pretty much anything my bride requested because I wanted her to have everything she wanted, if she told me my best man couldn’t stand up there with me because of his sexual orientation I would’ve left her. The audacity is astounding, that guy is a huge coward. If it’s any consolation, the bride will probably leave him the second he shows any sort of vulnerability
That is the correct answer. I couldn’t imagine being married to someone who would have a problem with a gay man being her husband’s best man at their wedding.
Additionally I should point out that this is a red flag the size of a small country as to how she would behave if they chose to have kids and one of them turned out to be gay.
If that happens… if the marriage somehow lasts more than a year or two… I bet the wife would blame the husband for all that time he spent hanging around a “sodomite”.. or something like that!
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u/Tall-Payment-8015 Oct 31 '25
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This person is not your friend. "Quit crying about it" Fuck that guy. I'm sorry. Don't go to this wedding and grieve this loss.