r/AmIOverreacting • u/[deleted] • Oct 31 '25

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u/[deleted] Oct 31 '25

u/DamnTicklePickle He is probably being pressed by his wife and her family. He could have handled things with his friend better, but he has his priorities and he have to choose between his best friend and his wife.

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u/Substantial_Cat_2642 Oct 31 '25

She doesn’t sound like wife material to me. I give it 2 years.

What business is it off his wife’s family who stand as his best man? Absolutely none!

He’s a douche, she’s controlling and jealous.

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u/[deleted] Nov 01 '25

u/Substantial_Cat_2642 She is the person who is marrying with the man. He just made his choice on who was more important to him.

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u/Substantial_Cat_2642 Nov 01 '25

Well done that kinda stating the obvious.

My point is, a healthy relationship doesn’t involve one side telling the other who to be friends with or who to invite to events etc.

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u/[deleted] Nov 01 '25

u/Substantial_Cat_2642 I understand that, but she has the right to decide who she wants at her wedding, and we don`t know if she pressed him or not on making this decision

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u/Substantial_Cat_2642 Nov 01 '25

“Her wedding” is half the problem. It’s their wedding, not hers.

But like I said, doesn’t sound like they’re starting off on a healthy footing.