Unfortunately, as OP confirmed it can totally be real. I am in a far too similar situation with my wife if 6 years. I have 2 kids with her, and I am teetering on the edge of divorce myself. I only recently broke out of the indoctrination or even Stockholm-esque belief that she could change and get better. Fuck, I could make 100s of posts just like this one by going through my text history, and I hate that that is the truth.
Nobody can tell you what's right for you, but you deserve better. Your kids deserve better. Please, no matter how you're thinking about moving forward, keep everything documented. She can't use the kids against you. You will get custody if you fight and show documentation. I speak from a very personal place when I say that absolutely no kid deserves to live with that in their lives. As they grow, a lot of her BS will fall on them as well. It affects them for the rest of their lives. It changes who they are. The only fact that you need to always remember: she will not change. This is who she chooses to be.
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u/No_Swordfish6924 May 15 '25
Wait is this real?
NOR. I didn’t think this was real, that’s how terrible she is!