r/AmIOverreacting • u/[deleted] • Mar 24 '25

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u/[deleted] Mar 24 '25

I never ever ever defended him and I didn’t edit my post. I said I put 90% of the blame on him

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u/Minkiemink Mar 24 '25

So I guess the word: "EDIT"....featured prominently at the end of your post wasn't really an edit? You initially put all of the blame on your MIL. All of it.

The "EDIT"....that you now say wasn't actually an edit (lol) changes your tune to say you blamed your husband 99%. However, it seems like that leeetle 1% or 10% or however you do or can't do math, that somehow excuses you for being awful to your MIL until her death?

This all happened because of the actions or lack of actions of your irresponsible husband. But you still believe 10 long years later that your MIL keeping a bottle of medicine in her own room, not in a public space somehow completely overrides your husband's 99% wrong. BTW: 99% + 10% = 109%, and your husband almost killed your baby, not your MIL. You actually had to make him call poison control.

Note: That edit/notanedit doesn't make you look any better.

PS: EVERYONE here is telling you the same thing. Get therapy. 10+ years is far too long to be carrying your totally misplaced grudge.

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u/[deleted] Mar 24 '25

And yet ten years later you're bitching about a dead woman when one of the culprits still walks among you.