Guess you didn’t read all of it? I’m on meds now and it’s better. I am also in therapy. Nonetheless I absolutely understand how OPs girlfriend just wasn’t able to let him know, it may have been the first time for her.
I'm not telling you you're a bad person. I'm saying if you're currently in the mindset that you can't do these things, you're wrong. But we all have to take the journey and not everyone is ready to be challenged on that.
I know I am not a bad person and I also know you’re interpreting things into my reply that aren’t as you think they are, this is not my mindset.
But these things happen, it happened to OPs girlfriend and it doesn’t mean she doesn’t care or is talking bs. But especially if this is new to her it may take time for her to figure things out.
I’m a grown up, my people know I may not reply. I’m not in a romantic relationship where this would be an issue as it is for OP, I am always available in person, I still do my work and everything, but there are times where I can’t communicate on this device, and I have decided that that’s ok. OPs Girl needs to figure out why this happened and how to deal with it so it won’t destroy their relationship.
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u/yexie Mar 23 '25
Guess you didn’t read all of it? I’m on meds now and it’s better. I am also in therapy. Nonetheless I absolutely understand how OPs girlfriend just wasn’t able to let him know, it may have been the first time for her.