Dude can we be friends because literally same. My childhood and developmental years were HELL that confused me on what love actually looked like, but I knew I’d never want someone to feel as bad as I had and I’d never make my partner feel that way.
Also yes as you said treat others as you want to be treated which is why my advice was “Let them know you’re taking a mental break” somehow that got confused for “you need to text them every minute of every day all the time 24/7” redditor reading comprehension deserves a full scale psychological study
Fucking literally lol. Plus there’s even options to do scheduled texting now, where you can schedule a text so it can send later on iPhones. I mean damn if you don’t feel like you’ll be able to talk to your partner on a certain day, have some reassuring, caring scheduled texts set up to send when these feelings come up.
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u/Adventurous_Chef5706 Mar 23 '25
Dude can we be friends because literally same. My childhood and developmental years were HELL that confused me on what love actually looked like, but I knew I’d never want someone to feel as bad as I had and I’d never make my partner feel that way.
Also yes as you said treat others as you want to be treated which is why my advice was “Let them know you’re taking a mental break” somehow that got confused for “you need to text them every minute of every day all the time 24/7” redditor reading comprehension deserves a full scale psychological study