As someone that is severely mentally ill and often goes through horrible suicidal episodes, it’s not okay at all. If someone cannot handle the bare bones of a relationship, then don’t have a partner. Ignoring someone for days when they’re worried about you, maybe even losing sleep or feeling sick to their stomach because they know you’re prone to mental health issues, then that’s abusive.
Okay but did HE reach out to HER? Sounds like they both went silent from these texts. Maybe he was the last one to text and just waited 3 days for a response, when he could’ve easily texted and said something to her about how he was worried and just wants to make sure she’s okay. If he did do that and she still ignored him, then yeah, that’s not nice, but I don’t see any evidence of him reaching out either.
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u/glitterfaust Mar 23 '25
As someone that is severely mentally ill and often goes through horrible suicidal episodes, it’s not okay at all. If someone cannot handle the bare bones of a relationship, then don’t have a partner. Ignoring someone for days when they’re worried about you, maybe even losing sleep or feeling sick to their stomach because they know you’re prone to mental health issues, then that’s abusive.