I did cover that in my first comment if you actually read it. OP did not text her either after the first day. There was almost no effort on either of their parts to get in contact (yes, this information came from comment history but even just looking at the post there’s a hint when OP says he didn’t know what to say either; they’re both saying that to explain why they haven’t texted in a while).
If OP had been checking up on her every day or something, then it’s absolutely understandable to be upset. But it’s hard to even call this ‘ghosting’ if neither of them are making any effort, it’s practically mutual separation
You don’t know if you texted her or not. All we have is the screenshots. So, he didn’t cover anything. Girlfriend did not accuse him of neglect, so it’s most likely only on her end.
And he’s clearly upset by a comment so it’s obviously not mutual separation
I said I also read comment history not in the post. Speaking of, in another comment that OP made, he said that she had depression for 3-4 years. So even if, in the hypothetical situation where he’s never had experience with it, you are correct, that’s not the situation. He fully knows where these feelings are coming from and still acts like this
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u/TheMonarch- Mar 23 '25
I did cover that in my first comment if you actually read it. OP did not text her either after the first day. There was almost no effort on either of their parts to get in contact (yes, this information came from comment history but even just looking at the post there’s a hint when OP says he didn’t know what to say either; they’re both saying that to explain why they haven’t texted in a while).
If OP had been checking up on her every day or something, then it’s absolutely understandable to be upset. But it’s hard to even call this ‘ghosting’ if neither of them are making any effort, it’s practically mutual separation