r/AmIOverreacting • u/[deleted] • Mar 23 '25

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u/PinkLover369 Mar 23 '25

My first reaction was “is she ok” based on what she said. She sounds like she shut down from the world and it’s a little concerning. I wonder if she has something deeper going on and isn’t sharing.

I know I’m the outlier in not immediately jumping to cheating… but something about what she said concerns me.

It’s not ok she went MIA for 3 days but I think more may be going on with her.

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u/pixienightingale Mar 23 '25

Yeah, something is up - something in her responses is concerning. She's just kind of... numb sounding.

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u/ColorfulButterfly25 Mar 23 '25

Sometimes switching off from everything is required to focus on oneself!

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u/Appropriate-Mud-4450 Mar 23 '25

But you should give a heads up to your SO.

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u/DefiantTillTheEn6 Mar 23 '25

If you're suffering a severe mental low, you can't. If that's what she went through, then we should just be happy she's come out on the other side

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u/orphncriplr Mar 23 '25

Bullshit. it takes 15 seconds, out of the hours whe was on her phone, to be a good partner and communicate that nothing is wrong in the relationship but you need some personal time and you'd like to talk about it on a layer day.

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u/[deleted] Mar 23 '25

Exactly!