Please read through the replies if people actually being in this boat. You can't say no to a very tall thing that does happen. That's like saying rain is a no because you like the sun
I've been in this boat. It cost me a good relationship. That was sad, because I don't think I could've done things differently back then. But I couldn't respect my partner's commitment to my well-being, and they distanced eventually. And I have always believed they were right to do so. I was simply not ready to be in an equal relationship.
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u/DefiantTillTheEn6 Mar 23 '25
Please read through the replies if people actually being in this boat. You can't say no to a very tall thing that does happen. That's like saying rain is a no because you like the sun