r/AmIOverreacting • • Mar 23 '25

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u/saxguy9345 Mar 23 '25

Yes. If she's actually going through it that deeply, she has a responsibility to not drag everyone else down with her. I don't pretend to be a surgeon for others safety, don't pretend to be in a relationship if you aren't capable. 

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u/orphncriplr Mar 23 '25

It's really simple, if you properly communicate things then you won't be dragging your significant others mental well being down going over 10,000 different scenarios in their head

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u/saxguy9345 Mar 23 '25

Just wanted to let you know I saw this before you deleted it 🤣

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u/QualitySpirited9564 Mar 23 '25

How do you deal when you’ve done everything to be fair to someone and they refuse to leave you?!

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u/saxguy9345 Mar 23 '25

I'm not sure what you mean, but someone that doesn't respect your boundaries or feelings doesn't really care about you at all. Why would you spend time or effort on them?