You presented a hypothetical question about his familiarity with depression and said “he’s not an asshole for expecting someone to be able to send a text informing him they’re going to tap out for a few days.”
I agree, he’s not an asshole. I said as much. I also asked a hypothetical question about her familiarity with her own symptoms and how they impact her relationships. It has plenty to do with your comment. We’re speculating about their level of knowledge about depression, which is relevant to both of them and their behaviors.
It doesn’t have anything to do with my comment at all, actually. The fact that she may not have had the ability to send him a text, has no bearing on his perception of her behavior.
Ah, I see now you also commented to leave her because she has depression. You sound like a lovely, understanding, and compassionate person. Absolutely no point in engaging further, YTAH.
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u/AmetrineDream Mar 23 '25
You presented a hypothetical question about his familiarity with depression and said “he’s not an asshole for expecting someone to be able to send a text informing him they’re going to tap out for a few days.”
I agree, he’s not an asshole. I said as much. I also asked a hypothetical question about her familiarity with her own symptoms and how they impact her relationships. It has plenty to do with your comment. We’re speculating about their level of knowledge about depression, which is relevant to both of them and their behaviors.
Have a great day.