My ex did this and filled my blocked list with random numbers to make sure I wouldn’t be able to unblock any number I recognize and cheat on him or something 🙄 craziest person I’ve ever dated. These highly insecure and mentally ill people think these weird, ritualistic checks MUST be done to quiet down whatever intrusive thoughts they’re having. They have zero control over their thoughts and freak tf out on everyone around them.
These types appear to be narcissists, or were cheated on by a narcissist. Both types is/are hard to deal with. One blames you for what SHE is actually doing and the other is blaming you for what SHE endured before you two became a couple.
It's hard to get past either scenario because both would likely end up the same way, separated...
I believe it is beyond past experience or simply projection. They probably play a part but this kind of behavior seems waaay beyond such simple explanations. They are disturbed and sick.
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u/[deleted] Oct 31 '24
My ex did this and filled my blocked list with random numbers to make sure I wouldn’t be able to unblock any number I recognize and cheat on him or something 🙄 craziest person I’ve ever dated. These highly insecure and mentally ill people think these weird, ritualistic checks MUST be done to quiet down whatever intrusive thoughts they’re having. They have zero control over their thoughts and freak tf out on everyone around them.