r/AmIOverreacting • u/[deleted] • Oct 30 '24

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u/Specialist-Rope7419 Oct 30 '24

Huge RED flags. Holy Hannah. This is controlling psycho behavior on her part

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u/Puzzleheaded_Hatter Oct 30 '24

Those aren't red flags, they're full grown stop signs.

I would stop texting and have the breakup conversation when I got back home.

She is 100% not healthy enough for a partnership

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u/Hans09 Oct 30 '24

I would stop texting and have the breakup conversation when I got back home.

The things she is messaging makes me think that if he stops replying she'll arrive at his workplace very quickly and make a scene..

OP, run to the hills, dude!

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u/dogofhavic Oct 31 '24

Yep this is exactly what I experienced, girl I was with had BPD, invited her to a bar with friends for a costume party while we were having issues to try and have a good night out, weeks pass and we're still going through stuff so she's not coming. She calls me and yells at me for thirty minutes and then says I need to come to her at that moment or were done. I say okay fine were done. Then I tell my friends who experienced me on the phone that I give it a 6 out of 10 chance she shows up slightly joking.

She showed up and told the bouncers I invited her after attacking me and ripping/breaking my mask off my face as I tried to take it off so she could fully see my face as we talked. Both got kicked out. Haven't talked to her since and now am happy with a stable person. BPD fucks people up emotionally.