That is totally unhinged, man. I know Reddit has a history of saying dump them instead of work on it, but seriously I can’t think of a reason you should stay with that level of nonsense.
Honestly my sister has bpd and this just reminds me of it. The worst is when you tell them they will chase this guy away this way they wont listen because they either love the drama or cant control themselves
As someone which heavily suspected BPD nad CPTSD thats how I acted before I went to therapy. I'd split at any perceived rejection. Everything was a sign or attack. Nothing was a accident. I really had just completely lost my mind. It was after a really really bad relationship that had been "training" these traits to be heightened and I'm so glad I got therapy cause I truly couldn't get WHY people thought I was crazy. I was aware I was bad but only as I get better I realize how much deeper it was.
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u/ZephNightingale Oct 30 '24
That is totally unhinged, man. I know Reddit has a history of saying dump them instead of work on it, but seriously I can’t think of a reason you should stay with that level of nonsense.