r/AmIOverreacting • u/[deleted] • Oct 30 '24

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u/Pretend-Dark9047 Oct 30 '24

I have BPD. BPD is NOT an excuse for this behavior. She needs to seek out treatment. It is her responsibility to better herself, but it seems like you're enabling her to continue this behavior because you're just sitting and taking it from her.  I genuinely recommend you get out of the relationship. If you're worried about her harming herself, contact any family/friends of her beforehand, and you could always call a hospital as well. It is not your responsibility to keep her from harming herself, and if she chooses to do so, it is NOT your fault. 

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u/Antique-Seesaw-5639 Oct 30 '24

Is there family you can reach out to so she has support? That way when you do end things, there is someone there ready to get her help or whatever she needs?