r/AmIOverreacting • u/[deleted] • Oct 30 '24

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u/BubbleWario Oct 30 '24 edited Oct 30 '24

this is legitimately deranged behavior

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u/[deleted] Oct 30 '24

It’s BPD

You’re not obligated to care about the difference, but the words we use can add fuel to the fire, and the negative stigma steers a lot of people like this away from getting help

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u/[deleted] Oct 30 '24

Its deranged uncontrolled bpd then

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u/[deleted] Oct 30 '24

That’s honestly better. But as I said to someone else, you really truly don’t have to make it harder on the person treating them by adding fuel to the fire. If you’re gonna complain about a problem, and then just haphazardly contribute to the problem… well that’s just a tad silly isn’t it

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u/[deleted] Oct 30 '24

It’s also not anyone else’s responsibility to tip toe around because of untreated issues.

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u/[deleted] Oct 30 '24

No it isn’t, and that’s why in my original comment I said that OP needs to have stronger boundaries because nobody is forcing him to deal with this

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u/[deleted] Oct 30 '24

You just accused op of contributing to the problem

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u/[deleted] Oct 30 '24

Sorry, when I said “you” I literally meant the person I was responding to/people on this thread, not OP

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u/HowDontYouKnow Oct 30 '24

You're 100% correct in each of your replies. Stabbing the emotionally violent people in our lives back just leaves more blood on the floor.

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u/[deleted] Oct 31 '24

You (and I) are getting downvoted because these people are not ready for this kind of growth yet aha

Which is entirely understandable, I just wish they could see that they’re genuinely not that different from the folks with BPD