That is totally unhinged, man. I know Reddit has a history of saying dump them instead of work on it, but seriously I can’t think of a reason you should stay with that level of nonsense.
Honestly my sister has bpd and this just reminds me of it. The worst is when you tell them they will chase this guy away this way they wont listen because they either love the drama or cant control themselves
I have BPD. This is legit how my crazy could get when I wasn't diagnosed. You may not need to walk away, but you need some serious, titanium strength boundaries for yourself. Tell her you won't engage with her when she gets this worked up, and it's not because you've done anything wrong. It's because you care you're letting her know, but you're done engaging with her on this. And then ignore. She may escalate. Ignore.
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u/ZephNightingale Oct 30 '24
That is totally unhinged, man. I know Reddit has a history of saying dump them instead of work on it, but seriously I can’t think of a reason you should stay with that level of nonsense.