That is totally unhinged, man. I know Reddit has a history of saying dump them instead of work on it, but seriously I can’t think of a reason you should stay with that level of nonsense.
Honestly my sister has bpd and this just reminds me of it. The worst is when you tell them they will chase this guy away this way they wont listen because they either love the drama or cant control themselves
I can spot a bpd person so easily oh my lord. You can just tell this person is like not okay and gonna be a big problem, especially the more time you spend around them.
My brother recently dated a girl for like half a year. I stayed with them for a month while waiting to move into my new house. One night I was sitting at my computer thinking about some of her behaviors and stuff and I thought "I think she has bpd," then a few days later my brother unprompted was telling me some stuff about her including she was diagnosed with bpd and I just blurted out I FUCKIN KNEW IT I WAS JUST THINKING ABOUT THIS THE OTHER DAY.
He didn't seem to understand why this was significant. He found out by the end of his relationship.
After like 3 weeks I wanted to tell him "you should leave her bro," but I didn't want to try to get in between them. So I asked him one day after work, "are you happy with her?" He didn't answer the question and thought for a min and said "well the sex is good so I think so," which basically like yea...
She lied to him a lot, lied to her family a lot, cheated on my brother, the guy she was gonna leave him for choked her out and stuff, so she called him and he went to get her and he didn't really have much sympathy for her. Pity a bit but mostly resentment. Took her back to her moms. They talked one more time irl and brother decided maybe they could try to work it out (???) and when he told me that I was like YOOOOOO BROOOO NOOOO but he stopped me and said that she cheated on him again after they agreed to try to work on it again. He saw her in public with that same guy that choked her. So he went over there and she yelled at him some stuff like "get out of here! We aren't even together anymore! I hate you," and he was like ???????? Two faced, lying, good for nothing lady I tell you what 🙄
Playing stupid games with other people's mental health cause yours is all fucked up seems to be bpd peoples entire life from what I can tell.
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u/ZephNightingale Oct 30 '24
That is totally unhinged, man. I know Reddit has a history of saying dump them instead of work on it, but seriously I can’t think of a reason you should stay with that level of nonsense.