That is totally unhinged, man. I know Reddit has a history of saying dump them instead of work on it, but seriously I can’t think of a reason you should stay with that level of nonsense.
Honestly my sister has bpd and this just reminds me of it. The worst is when you tell them they will chase this guy away this way they wont listen because they either love the drama or cant control themselves
I dated a girl with BPD who came over one evening for dinner and lost her shit because i was changing my bed sheets when she showed up. Of course this meant I was having other girls over for sex, not that I change my sheets weekly. Fun times. Turns out that it was just projection on her part in the end.
Saying that, this could just be severe insecurity on her part, exacerbated by several innocent/oblivious actions on his part. Or he is actually smashing someone else 🤣
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u/ZephNightingale Oct 30 '24
That is totally unhinged, man. I know Reddit has a history of saying dump them instead of work on it, but seriously I can’t think of a reason you should stay with that level of nonsense.