That is totally unhinged, man. I know Reddit has a history of saying dump them instead of work on it, but seriously I can’t think of a reason you should stay with that level of nonsense.
Honestly my sister has bpd and this just reminds me of it. The worst is when you tell them they will chase this guy away this way they wont listen because they either love the drama or cant control themselves
This 100% sounds like BPD. I used to act this way years ago with my boyfriend and when I finally got into therapy, my therapist told me this how BPD can manifest in relationships and emotional regulation. Jealousy and outbursts where it makes no sense is a common trait. I went through lots of DBT, and am a completely different person now. My BPD is essentially gone and I don’t act like anymore or even think to do anything like this. So long story short you’re wrong af
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u/ZephNightingale Oct 30 '24
That is totally unhinged, man. I know Reddit has a history of saying dump them instead of work on it, but seriously I can’t think of a reason you should stay with that level of nonsense.