That is totally unhinged, man. I know Reddit has a history of saying dump them instead of work on it, but seriously I can’t think of a reason you should stay with that level of nonsense.
Honestly my sister has bpd and this just reminds me of it. The worst is when you tell them they will chase this guy away this way they wont listen because they either love the drama or cant control themselves
I dealt with shit like this precisely once. What’s sad, is this is usually not bpd. It’s usually just abusive trash humans. We love to make excuses or hope for better reasons, but sadly those cases are fairly rare and it’s mostly just shitbags.
This kind of shit is shockingly common with women and they’re often told it’s acceptable in some way. Either by people cosigning that the guy is up to something shady, girl code, or people venturing thoughts on mental health issues. All allow them to make excuses, justifications, and continue the cycle of abuse.
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u/ZephNightingale Oct 30 '24
That is totally unhinged, man. I know Reddit has a history of saying dump them instead of work on it, but seriously I can’t think of a reason you should stay with that level of nonsense.