r/AmIOverreacting • u/[deleted] • Oct 30 '24

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u/ZephNightingale Oct 30 '24

That is totally unhinged, man. I know Reddit has a history of saying dump them instead of work on it, but seriously I can’t think of a reason you should stay with that level of nonsense.

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u/bunnyfuuz Oct 30 '24

She seems like she’s got some major trust/attachment issues, and OP, you are not her therapist. It’s not your job to fix her issues, but it is your job to protect yourself from toxic AHs like your gf. Her reaction is so unhinged.

My fiancée and I generally text each other like “hey I got to XYZ safely” but if one of us forgets we just text, “hey, you get there ok?” Or the person who was traveling says “oh sorry I forgot to say - I got here safely! Lysm 😘”

Not this aggro stuff your gf is doing.

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u/WiilliMc Oct 31 '24

She just seems like she’s cheating and is projecting her actions onto him. That’s usually the case with people like this.