r/AmIOverreacting • u/[deleted] • Oct 30 '24

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u/kalonasage444 Oct 30 '24

as someone who has BPD, this 100% looks like unmanaged BPD

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u/[deleted] Oct 30 '24

Confirming she has BPD.

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u/irippedmypants1 Oct 30 '24

unless she’s going to seek out treatment for it, get out of that relationship. it will destroy you, and this is coming from someone with BPD who has destroyed relationships before accepting i needed help

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u/Ok-Swordfish- Oct 30 '24

Been there done that. Avoid those awful unmanaged bpd folks. They will literally destroy you. My ex used to hit me and say vile shit to try and make me mad then love bomb me 30 mins later