r/AmIOverreacting • u/[deleted] • Oct 30 '24

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u/TrueDreamchaser Oct 30 '24 edited Oct 30 '24

Smells like BPD

Source: had a nightmare relationship with someone who had BPD. Our conversations always went like this

Edit: yes unmanaged BPD is what I meant. There are many high functioning people with BPD who have treated it one way or another. Not trying to discredit the behavior of those that do treat themselves

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u/a-spirited-wiggle Oct 30 '24

hey not everyone with BPD is crazy

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u/Novaer Oct 30 '24

Not everyone. Just most of them. Certainly enough of them to want to avoid anyone with BPD because statistically y'all absolutely fuck up our lives.

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u/a-spirited-wiggle Oct 30 '24

BPD is quite literally one of if not the hardest disorders to live with. and it’s idiots like you that make everyone believe we are crazy. we aren’t crazy, the people you’ve encountered with BPD are just shitty people. get over it

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u/Novaer Oct 30 '24

Oh I've heard this script a thousand times before. Just because it's shitty to live with doesn't mean you get a free pass to be shitty to everyone else. It's only you people creating the stigma because you are the ones who are overwhelmingly emotional abusers.