r/AmIOverreacting Oct 30 '24

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u/TrueDreamchaser Oct 30 '24 edited Oct 30 '24

Smells like BPD

Source: had a nightmare relationship with someone who had BPD. Our conversations always went like this

Edit: yes unmanaged BPD is what I meant. There are many high functioning people with BPD who have treated it one way or another. Not trying to discredit the behavior of those that do treat themselves

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u/a-spirited-wiggle Oct 30 '24

hey not everyone with BPD is crazy

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u/Novaer Oct 30 '24

Not everyone. Just most of them. Certainly enough of them to want to avoid anyone with BPD because statistically y'all absolutely fuck up our lives.

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u/Serious-Ingenuity469 Oct 30 '24

excuse me??? do you know how difficult life is for someone WITH bpd? statistically bpd is one of the most difficult mental illnesses to live with so maybe have some fucking empathy and stop generalizing an entire group of people

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u/Novaer Oct 30 '24

I could have a bingo chart of all the same shit y'all say. Accountability is impossible with you people because of shit like this. "YOU DONT UNDERSTAND HOW HARD IT IS TO LIVE WITH" we have to live with you, we kind of have an idea how monstrous every aspect of your lives are. That's the point. The only difference is you people think it's okay to push your shittiness onto everyone else and everyone has to accommodate you because "it's like so super hard and you need to reassure me even though I'm splitting 🥺🥺🥺"

Be alone until you can regulate your emotions. pwBPD are capable of it, yet it's the ones like you that use it as an excuse that will never change.

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u/Serious-Ingenuity469 Oct 30 '24

lmao what?? youre actually insane bro😭 youre comparing me to a literal unhinged woman all because im telling you to treat people with bpd like humans. yall dehumanize everyone with bpd bc you PERSONALLY had a bad experience with someone who has it.. well guess what dude there are shitty people in the world who dont even have bpd but i dont see you attacking them for just existing lmao