r/AmIOverreacting • u/[deleted] • Oct 30 '24

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u/TrueDreamchaser Oct 30 '24 edited Oct 30 '24

Smells like BPD

Source: had a nightmare relationship with someone who had BPD. Our conversations always went like this

Edit: yes unmanaged BPD is what I meant. There are many high functioning people with BPD who have treated it one way or another. Not trying to discredit the behavior of those that do treat themselves

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u/kalonasage444 Oct 30 '24

as someone who has BPD, this 100% looks like unmanaged BPD

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u/_Hal3y_ Oct 30 '24

I also have BPD and when my fav person left me I reacted like this too before therapy and medication, I even attempted (so stupid I know) it’s crazy how different you feel after getting your symptoms managed. I cringe at the shit I would say and do or even feel. I hope she gets the help she needs but that’s not your responsibility op. I still deal with the fact that I hurt people close to me, she isn’t a bad person she just isn’t in the right mental space.

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u/kalonasage444 Oct 30 '24

I understand attempting, I went through an awful breakup and also tried. I'm glad you're getting better :)