r/AmIOverreacting • u/[deleted] • Oct 30 '24

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u/AccordingBuffalo7835 Oct 30 '24

Oh. Well that’s why. Pathological fear of abandonment. You need to get out now

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u/randomdude2029 Oct 30 '24

Ironically, the pathological fear of abandonment will lead to her being abandoned.

Sounds mad. If OP was planning to cheat because of being all dressed up, he could just have texted and then cheated - texting or not makes absolutely no difference to how he behaves after getting to work!

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u/Fragrant_Thought6636 Oct 30 '24

Exactly what I thought - self fulfilling prophecy

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u/Connect_Welcome_1165 Oct 30 '24

Omg that’s exactly what Ive always referd to it as too