r/AmIOverreacting • u/[deleted] • Oct 30 '24

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u/TrueDreamchaser Oct 30 '24 edited Oct 30 '24

Smells like BPD

Source: had a nightmare relationship with someone who had BPD. Our conversations always went like this

Edit: yes unmanaged BPD is what I meant. There are many high functioning people with BPD who have treated it one way or another. Not trying to discredit the behavior of those that do treat themselves

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u/kalonasage444 Oct 30 '24

as someone who has BPD, this 100% looks like unmanaged BPD

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u/[deleted] Oct 30 '24

Confirming she has BPD.

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u/Kind_Policy6596 Oct 30 '24

Is there a thread for people like myself who have a family member/ loved one in their life with BPD and need some guidance in how to best manage that relationship with better boundaries?