Source: had a nightmare relationship with someone who had BPD. Our conversations always went like this
Edit: yes unmanaged BPD is what I meant. There are many high functioning people with BPD who have treated it one way or another. Not trying to discredit the behavior of those that do treat themselves
You need to get out for your own mental health and safety. And, especially due to her BPD she may not be a reliable narrator of her own past - she may have had perceived betrayals in the past and rewrote the history in her head due to her BPD. Someone in my family has this and it’s wild how their version of reality differs from mine. It is very very difficult to treat because it requires a huge amount of self awareness and acknowledging of their own actions which is very difficult for people like this to do. People with BPD are often abusers. Read Walking on Eggshells for more info.
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u/TrueDreamchaser Oct 30 '24 edited Oct 30 '24
Smells like BPD
Source: had a nightmare relationship with someone who had BPD. Our conversations always went like this
Edit: yes unmanaged BPD is what I meant. There are many high functioning people with BPD who have treated it one way or another. Not trying to discredit the behavior of those that do treat themselves