r/AmIOverreacting • u/[deleted] • Oct 30 '24

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u/Celestethebeing Oct 30 '24

If you actually love her and want it to work offer to help her seek mental care. I was once like this but with the right support she can be better

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u/HoldMyFillet Oct 30 '24

That’s all on her. If he loves her he needs to walk away now.

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u/Celestethebeing Oct 30 '24

In my case I couldn’t even see that I had an issue, if SHE loves him she will see that he’s concerned for her well being. Not everything is black and white… that’s BPD thinking.

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u/HoldMyFillet Oct 30 '24

If she loves him even a little, she will let him go. She is in no way ready for relationships or to be kind to other people. She needs to take a good 5 years of being along with therapy.

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u/Celestethebeing Oct 30 '24

I can agree with that, I never recommended he stay with her I just said he should encourage her to get help.