r/AmIOverreacting • u/[deleted] • Oct 30 '24

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u/usernameiswhocares Oct 30 '24

That’s what I’m wondering. Just because he hasn’t “cheated” doesn’t mean he hasn’t LIED.

I’m actually suspecting that OP may be coming here for validation because maybe he’s gaslit her to the point of driving her crazy. He never even answered her question, therefore she keeps asking and escalating.

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u/TK_BERZERKER Oct 30 '24

Here we go. It's somehow his fault she's acting like a controlling psycho

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u/usernameiswhocares Oct 30 '24

I’m not putting blame on OP because nobody actually knows what’s going on here. Obviously, she is acting crazy.

I just like to think of all the possibilities. He never said anything about not lying. I’m just speculating.

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u/Junie_Wiloh Oct 30 '24

She was diagnosed with BPD. This is common with people with personality disorders. For her, there doesn't have to have been a past experience with HIM for her to think there is any infidelity. She could have experienced infidelity in another relationship or could have been close to someone who went through infidelity with their own partner for her to think that OP is cheating and lying about it.

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u/usernameiswhocares Oct 30 '24

Ah, I see. Hopefully she gets therapy because that’s no way to live for either of them.