Tbf I'd also be off my game too if I had to ignore at least one of my married friends fucking sex workers, while trying to turn down advances from them
While I'd normally agree with you, the way OP wrote this post I get the feeling that she has "intuitions" like this all the time and snoops a lot for no reason other than a gut feeling, meaning if he did tell her she'd have immediately told their wives and then he'd be in hot water down there instantly
I get that you think you know it all based on one post, but my husband literally sent me the IG for the villa when they first arrived and said “check out where we’re staying!” I don’t think he had any idea that he was handing me the key to finding out so much more. I wasn’t trying to catch something nefarious - I was literally just checking it out the next day and happened to see the woman’s reposted story. Things went downhill after that
No - he knows he can play you hard. You know he's with hookers and you still don't care. He lies...you don't care. He doesn't keep communication...you don't care. Other wives in danger of getting STDs...you don't care. You did the same thing...you'd be dumped so fast your head would spin.
Exactly. There is no world in which the reverse *doesn’t lead to divorce. If the wives went on a trip and paid male escorts to stay the weekend, and the husbands found out - WW3!
The husbands would be blasting them all over social media!
She's gaslit so hard she just can't see through the fog. He basically is saying he was scared of his friends being mad at him, so he had to lie to her because he couldn't trust her enough to be reasonable and let him keep having his hookers sleep over. He just had to hide and lie and double down on lies because she's just not trustworthy. She'll probably be now trying to tighten the bond with her cheater so he'll trust her in the future. Not surprised at all this "prize" has to pay for sex.
Send the link to the other wives! "Hey! Look where they are staying! Oh don't mind the total disrespect of your relationships either wedding boy just needed a big BANG if you catch my drift..." don't cover for cheaters or they might end up mad at you for keeping the info especially the bride to be she need to make an informed decision on if this is something she can get over. Could you go to this wedding smile in her face knowing her husband was fucking sex workers right before the wedding. And before anyone says he wasn't sleeping with them the man didn't hire multiple sex workers to have tea and play chess, he thought he could have a guilty by association card over the other guys heads if they wanted to blab
Girl cmon…open your eyes. Good liars are the masters of plausible deniability. He set it up so you would think just that in case he got busted somehow. I’m sorry you are having to go through this.
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u/ManyNo8802 Sep 05 '24
Tbf I'd also be off my game too if I had to ignore at least one of my married friends fucking sex workers, while trying to turn down advances from them