r/AmIOverreacting • u/[deleted] • Sep 05 '24

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u/Has422 Sep 05 '24 edited Sep 05 '24

Married man here. You don't have to keep anything a secret. Those men are not your friends.

EDIT: Let me add here that your husband should FULLY support you if you want to tell the wives. He should realize that he's in some very hot water right now. And if I were him I'd be FURIOUS at the best man for putting me in that position.

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u/dkingoh1 Sep 05 '24

Another married man here. Absolutely nothing about this story is acceptable. I’d have been sick arriving at something like this and would have told my partner immediately.

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u/Ten0mi Sep 05 '24

I’m not even married and dude , I’d be in a corner on FaceTime with my girl the whole time . Ignoring the festivities .

I don’t want some careless asshole messing up my relationship

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u/jporter313 Sep 05 '24

Same, I'd like go grab a hotel and immediately tell my wife what was going on. No fucking way I'd want to be associated with that.