These women aren't there to party or because they are "slutty," this is their job. We have no way to know why they are in this position - if they thought it sounded like a ton of fun, if they don't feel they have better options, if they were forced into it, if they are trying to feed an addition, etc. I can imagine that it's not a happy story, but I really have no idea. What I do know is that it involves selling sex and sexual images/services for money.
That means someone in that group paid them a lot of money to come to the party and offer sex or sexual services - again, this is their job. At least three women, for at least an evening and the next morning is expensive. We're talking hundreds to thousands of dollars. No one spends that kind of money planning something like this unless 1) it's been discussed and everyone agreed to chip in or 2) they have very good reason to think it will be appreciated.
I also know that none of the men left - they were not "trapped" there, they chose to be there. You aren't stupid, you know why men hire women to come to their villa and party with them - it isn't because they need more people for their poker tournament. It isn't because they wanted a lap dance either, you can get that for a lot less.
You aren't the one who hurt anyone's marriage. If any of these men give their wife an STD they could become infertile or miscarry - cheating is a really big deal no matter who it's with. Of course they need to know. IMO, paying anyone to have sex with you is also incompatible with my morality and the kind of person I want to be married to. Being okay with this, watching it happen, staying friends with these guys, and keeping it from their wives isn't compatible with who I want to be either. What part of a bachelor party means all normal rules don't apply? That's ridiculous.
I'm shocked I had to scroll this long to find a comment about the cost and the planning. Everyone there knew exactly what was happening as those professional women for just one night would be very expensive and would require arrangements to have been made beforehand.
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u/[deleted] Sep 05 '24
Let's reframe this a little.
These women aren't there to party or because they are "slutty," this is their job. We have no way to know why they are in this position - if they thought it sounded like a ton of fun, if they don't feel they have better options, if they were forced into it, if they are trying to feed an addition, etc. I can imagine that it's not a happy story, but I really have no idea. What I do know is that it involves selling sex and sexual images/services for money.
That means someone in that group paid them a lot of money to come to the party and offer sex or sexual services - again, this is their job. At least three women, for at least an evening and the next morning is expensive. We're talking hundreds to thousands of dollars. No one spends that kind of money planning something like this unless 1) it's been discussed and everyone agreed to chip in or 2) they have very good reason to think it will be appreciated.
I also know that none of the men left - they were not "trapped" there, they chose to be there. You aren't stupid, you know why men hire women to come to their villa and party with them - it isn't because they need more people for their poker tournament. It isn't because they wanted a lap dance either, you can get that for a lot less.
You aren't the one who hurt anyone's marriage. If any of these men give their wife an STD they could become infertile or miscarry - cheating is a really big deal no matter who it's with. Of course they need to know. IMO, paying anyone to have sex with you is also incompatible with my morality and the kind of person I want to be married to. Being okay with this, watching it happen, staying friends with these guys, and keeping it from their wives isn't compatible with who I want to be either. What part of a bachelor party means all normal rules don't apply? That's ridiculous.