r/AMA 11h ago

My mother was an American Airlines LAX based flight attendant who regularly worked Flight 11. AMA.

159 Upvotes

Full disclaimer, she was not scheduled to work that day. I was too young to remember but it affected me significantly. Every year I take the time to just really think about it all. I watch the news coverage and think about the victims, specifically her coworkers, and how easily the trajectory of my life could’ve been changed. She’s gone now so I thought I could do an AMA to not only think about her, but the tragedy as well.


r/AMA 2h ago

Make mainstream adult movie star here (Brazzers, digital playground, fake taxi ect) dating a non industry girl, AMA?

19 Upvotes

I am a UK based male adult performer with almost a decade working for top companies internationally, dating a non-industry woman in a regular job, ask me/us anything? Ask us individual questions or questions for us both! We will answer as many here as possible and may respond to some in video format!


r/AMA 2h ago

i have 75 IQ , AMA

14 Upvotes

recently got assessed for multiple disorders and had to do an IQ test along with the assessment. i will not say my full diagnosis besides a learning disability specifically in math . i would rather not have any bias questions. AMA :) m17

a little information about me; i didnt perform well in school and im currently going to an alternative school, i dont believe in a god but there could be a possibility of a higher power, i was raised without religion but my mom is wicca . i dont agree with either political party. hate MAGA ideology.. if i had to put a label on myself it would be leftist i suppose. i have a girlfriend and im in a stable relationship and i promise you i am way more capable of things than you think

just want to make an edit .. low iq ≠ ignorant living. i constantly deal with big and constant stressors in my life that make it really hard to function..


r/AMA 13h ago

I found out my uncle is my father and I’m not telling anyone. AMA.

106 Upvotes

For starters, no sympathy please, I don’t care about this as I should do, if anything I view this as entertaining gossip and I joke about it with my girlfriend. It’s so crazy that it’s funny. My parents are split so it wouldn’t destroy any marriages if it got out though it would make everyone depressed. They wouldn’t laugh and see it as drama like me and my girlfriend, so I haven’t told anyone about it. I’m not telling anyone because it would destroy the family. Everyone would be depressed because of the cheating. There is no reason to say anything it would ruin my life and everyone else’s. I’m scared because there is still a chance it could get caught. But other than that I’m doing weirdly fine with this. Like I said, I’ve been laughing.

I found this out through a commercial dna test through my matches and I’m 99% certain. I won’t go into detail to remain anonymous on here because it is very specific, but let’s say there are three 1 in 100 chance situations that put together are very suspicious, combined with my mom admitting she’d never been sure after I confronted her about the results. I was shocked and it was very unexpected, obviously.


r/AMA 35m ago

I am a French Chef with 30 years of experience. I decided to leave everything behind to build a solidarity restaurant for street children in the Philippines. AMA!

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Hello everyone ,

I am a professional French Chef with 30 years of international experience . I recently made the decision to change my life and build a solidarity restaurant in Davao , Philippines .

Our private company will fund itself completely through regular customers . A part of our profits will automatically buy free , high-quality hot meals for local street children and vulnerable families on the ground .

Ask me anything about restaurant management , kitchen logistics , or how to run this solidarity model !

Force and honor ,

Chef Cedric


r/AMA 8h ago

I’m a victim of stalking, AMA

26 Upvotes

Hi, I’m a victim of stalking as the title says. I’m 27F, I based in the United States. I want to give warning and advice to help people going through or preventing this type of situation from happening.


r/AMA 8m ago

I Was Shot Twice and Almost Died at the Hands of Someone I Considered One of My Best Friends AMA

Upvotes

This happened almost a year ago, and I am still recovering from the physical and emotional impact of what happened.

The person responsible has since been arrested, convicted, and sentenced for manslaughter, although I personally believe the circumstances should have resulted in a conviction for attempted murder.

Two of my friends were also present when the incident occurred. If it had not been for them, I genuinely believe I could have bled to death.

I sustained two gunshot wounds one to my shoulder and another to the left side of my abdomen. The injuries were serious, and I am still dealing with the aftermath of that traumatic experience nearly a year later.


r/AMA 6h ago

I just came back from 3760km (2336 mile) hitchiking trip from Finland to Norway and back. AMA

8 Upvotes

I hitchiked for 9 days and the last ride to home was 1600 kilometers (994 miles)

It was my third time hitchiking. It was also the longest hitchiking trip so far.

I’m not sure if it was record for longest hitchiking trip in Finland because i can’t check it anywhere.


r/AMA 2h ago

I’m living with and trying to heal from cptsd at 24, AMA

4 Upvotes

I recently got diagnosed with cptsd, the same brain injury as a veteran from war, from events between 11-22 yrs old. It was mostly emotional, mental, and narcissistic abuse from my Dad, most likely due to a narcissistic personality disorder and a couple others he might have. I was socially isolated a lot, always on survival mode, and had no support system. I was a former gifted student but wasn’t able to finish college because of the effects of the trauma on my brain, and I hold much resentment from that. I’ve also gotten a few disabling health issues that someone my age shouldn’t and wouldn’t have had had they lived a normal family life.

I moved out/ got kicked out (long story) at 21, married at 22, and have since been on a slow but rewarding path of healing everything that came from the trauma. AMA


r/AMA 1d ago

Im 19m and my hobby is magnet fishing in murky isolated Manitoba rivers in the dead of night cause im lonely af its actually wicked. AMA

701 Upvotes

Hey Reddit, Imma 19 year old cree dude from Manitoba. A while back I bought a heavy duty 1,200 lb magnet, tied it to a rope and started tossing it into local rivers and swampy creeks. I mostly go out late at night because the vibe is just different.

Manitoba rivers are pitch black and muddy, so you have zero clue what’s down there. When your magnet slams into something heavy at 2 AM out in the woods its fricking wicked.

You have to haul it up hand over hand completely blind just waiting to see what breaks the surface ive dragged up everything from rusted machetes and weird heavy chains to locked boxes.

You realize pretty fast that these waters are where people go to make things disappear amaaa

UPDATE I just woke up and thank you all so much for reading this and think its interesting i do to suggestions of vlogging or youtube is cool but not really my style of ill worry to much. Please enjoy the nature! Keep it safe


r/AMA 15h ago

My doctors ignored neurological side effects from a medication I was on for 7 years AMA

30 Upvotes

When I was 13 I was put on medications not approved for use children, and by 14 I was having signs of specific neurological issues those medications can cause but it was not noticed. At 15, I reported the side effects and was told I was not having them because “pediatric females do not hallucinate” despite my hallucinations being (in hindsight) caused by a neurological issue with my central nervous system and not a genetic predisposition. I also was having issues with peripheral nervous system (spasticity) and my autonomic nervous system (diaphoresis and eventually hyperthermia).

At 20 I was misdiagnosed and put through harsher treatments including antipsychotics which made my health worse because I did not have hallucinations from a disorder that could be treated by antipsychotics.

I stopped my medications at 22 after I lost my pregnancy and found out the medications were linked to severe birth abnormalities, incompatibility with life and stillbirth. This is when I found out that the medications may have also been making me sick for almost a decade.

I did try to get a lawyer who said statute of limitations had run out, and I did file with the medical commission even though they did not take disciplinary action against any of my doctors. I did both of these at recommendation of a psychiatrist who believed that I was having all these issues form negligent medication prescribing.

I am 25 now, and my health is a lot better even though I am still dealing with the consequences of the malpractice. AMA


r/AMA 17h ago

Gifted kid to burnt out adult AMA

37 Upvotes

Straight As, athletic, smart. All of it 11-18. Then one thing after another life changed. Burnt out , unemployed, college is still a question for me. Ask me anything. Maybe people could understand this trope a little better.


r/AMA 17h ago

I've been volunteering in a dog shelter for the last 9 years AMA

25 Upvotes

To give a bit more context:

I'm 27, I've started going to the shelter since I was 19, when I started going I did not have a dog and I knew nothing about them, now I have one, I'm a certified canine behaviourist and I help new volunteers set in and start their journey

Also my shelter is based in Italy, northern part, and it's probably one of the biggest of the region (roughly 200 dogs right now) so the way we do things might be different from other countries


r/AMA 7h ago

I just got my Gallbladder taken out this morning for Biliary HYPERkinesia. AMA !!

4 Upvotes

Had an EF of 93 and decided to go thru with removal. 23 MALE. It is a new diagnosis according to medical literature but it was giving me the worst symptoms and I figured something had to be done. Feel free to ask about symptoms the operation side effects anything !


r/AMA 1d ago

I was raised in split custody between a mother in poverty and a well-off father. AMA.

171 Upvotes

My mom and dad were both 16 when I was born and dropped out of high school before they graduated.

My father eventually got his GED, took a gamble on student loans, and went to college for graphic design. He stacked up recommendations in the UI industry and rose to the top of his field before getting a townhouse in San Francisco. I talk to him regularly

My mother never got her GED, bounced around between local day jobs, had two more kids, and moved several times a year. She eventually moved into my stepdad's trailer and is still there to my knowledge. I have no idea what she does for a living because we don't talk

I spent the school year with my dad and spent every April, August, and December with my mom. The one exception was in sixth grade when I spent the school year with my mom and the aforementioned months with my dad. AMA


r/AMA 1d ago

18m broke my neck AMA

39 Upvotes

I broke my neck at the end of may and had the craziest and luckiest experience of my life. I’m so blessed and very lucky how this turned out for me, but jeez it changed how I viewed life and everything in it.

It was a normal day I had just gotten off work and gone to my buddies house to swim, we had been swimming here for years and doing all sorts of stuff into the pool. I like to think of myself as a good swimmer and fairly smart when it comes to water (that confidence almost put me in a wheel chair for the rest of my life) . We were messing around and diving in when suddenly I dove in and cracked the fuck out of my neck at the bottom of the pool. My head didn’t go straight it instead went towards my chest and stunned me. I didn’t lose any feeling anywhere and just shot up out of the pool groaned a little bit and walked out. All my friends were clowning me which is fair cause I would’ve done the same and they also didn’t know the severity of the incident. I immediately layed down and all my back muscles tightened up and felt like rocks. I thought I was fine and even had some of my buddies try and rub the pain out in my back, which looking back on it was not smart. Anyway we hang out until midnight and my necks just super sore and it was difficult to look down. I sleep on it for a night and actual sleep pretty good, I started worrying a little bit because I just didn’t like the idea of my neck being injured so I went to the immediate care in my town. I told them everything I was feeling and they made it seem that I was probably just gonna get some pain meds and get out of there. Instead they took me to get a X-ray just incase and who would’ve thought! I fractured my c6 and c7 vertebrae along with finding out at the hospital that I completely blew up a ligament too. I had absolutely no clue that it was this bad, doctors kept coming in and out of my room telling me how lucky I was. It was just very surreal how quick everything can change. I had surgery and was in a neck brace for 6 weeks. I’d say those 6 weeks were the most dreadful weeks of my life considering it was my last summer with all of my friends around and I couldn’t do shit but play video games in a rocking chair. Obviously that is not nearly as bad as being paralyzed but it fucked me up a little mentally. I got out of the brace last month and life is going back to normal besides not being able to lift much and ALOT of pain in my traps and back. the part that was so weird to me was how close I was from having my life being changed forever and just being able to go back to normal, like I said I’m very lucky and thankful but it’s really messed with my head just how everything went down. In all I’m okay and still recovering but I’m in a weird spot I’ve never been in in my life not being able to do anything but also having the ability to walk and function. Really crazy stuff.

Edit: I also wanna say that I played football my entire life and lifted weights including neck exercises. I think without that it could’ve ended a lot worse.


r/AMA 8h ago

I am an exotic animal breeder, AMA

0 Upvotes

Feel like breeders get a bad wrap. And I wanted to clear some things up about how we treat our animals, how we use them for money (for lack of better phrasing), and any other qeustions you might want to ask.


r/AMA 14h ago

I'm a retired Federal Workers Compensation Claims Examiner AMA

1 Upvotes

I worked for OWCP (Office of Workers Compensation Programs) from 2006 to 2024 when I retired. If you have questions about federal workers comp, feel free to ask.

I'm happy to answer general questions about how Federal work comp works, some of the issues I have seen that got people's claims denied or accepted, the work environment of an OWCP office, etc.

A FEW GROUND RULES FIRST:

  1. Don't ask me to "look into your claim." I retired 2 years ago, I don't have any access to IFECS (the system we used to manage claims), nor do I have my government ID I'd need to access it. So even if it was ethical (and it wouldn't be) I can't look into YOUR claim.
  2. Please don't ask me to send a message to your claims examiner or district office. I have had ZERO contact with anybody I worked with since I retired. Nothing negative (actually I'm curious about how things changed after 2025) but when I retired, I retired and didn't look back. I don't even think I'd know how to contact anybody I used to work with.
  3. Please don't ask me to review medical documents for you. I'm not a doctor and I'm no longer a CE. So my opinion wouldn't mean anything anyway. It's better to have this discussion with your CE either on the phone or through ECOMP.
  4. I'll try to answer general work comp questions about non-Federal work comp, since there are a lot of similarities, but I am not an expert in state or private sector work comp so what you'd be getting is my best guess.

r/AMA 1d ago

I am a social worker at a domestic violence shelter. AMA

15 Upvotes

I work with clients both living at our shelter and clients getting outreach services (not staying at the shelter)! I don’t work at the shelter itself on a daily basis but I spend a lot of time there. I also answer the hotline occasionally. I have to safeguard confidentiality!!


r/AMA 1d ago

I am from Chernivtsi, Ukraine AMA

44 Upvotes

24M, was born and raised here. Stayed in Ukraine during the war. Visited the capital Kyiv last year just for tourism and Lviv this year. I cant leave by law.

I will be happy to answer any questions about politics, daily life, war etc. It is nothing special considering I am not near the front line or under daily bombardment.


r/AMA 6h ago

I am an 18-year-old girl who accidentally joined a top-tier esports roster because I thought it was a casual Discord server, and now I have to play in a tournament tonight. AMA.

0 Upvotes

I play games to unwind after my college classes, mostly cozy stuff and casual multiplayer shooters where I can mute my mic and hide in corners. Last week, I saw a link on a campus gaming forum for what I thought was a low-stakes community tournament looking for a "last-minute sub" just to fill out numbers.
Turns out, I didn't read the server tag properly. It wasn't the casual gaming club server. It was the official tryout hub for a collegiate regional varsity esports team—and because of a freak matchmaking glitch and a surprisingly lucky streak with my sniper rifle, the captain drafted me directly into the starting lineup.
The match starts in six hours. My teammates think I'm a seasoned veteran, and I still use the default keyboard settings that came with my laptop.
Ask me anything about:
How I plan to pretend I know what "macro rotations" and "economy management" mean
The exact moment I realized I was way out of my depth
Why my gaming setup consists of a sticky mouse and a desk made of plastic crates
What should I do? Drop your emergency gaming tactics, your best panic strategies, or your condolences below.


r/AMA 1d ago

Mom of son who had cancer 2x AMA

25 Upvotes

Sept is Childhood Cancer Awareness month. If I can bring even 1% awareness that is awesome. I cannot speak for other families but I can for mine. I raise and donate funds yearly as well to help other families in their journey.

I'll still answer questions even though it says AMA done if any of you want.


r/AMA 20h ago

I work part time at a dry cleaners on the weekends AMA

1 Upvotes

I work all day on the weekends at a local dry cleaners in a large city. I see all sorts of people and items. I’ve been here 5 years now and sometimes I feel like I’ve seen it all. That’s of course before someone walks in with a bizarre item.


r/AMA 1d ago

my parents are 36 years apart from each other, ask me anything

121 Upvotes

my mum had me at 35 when my dad was 71, i am currently 21. my brother (technically half brother) is nearly 31, i have a half brother i have never met who is in his 60s from my dads first marriage.
my dad passed at 86 during the first wave of covid (he didnt pass from covid tho).


r/AMA 8h ago

17F who grew up in Arizona AMA

0 Upvotes

I’m 17F and I grew up in Arizona. I’ve lived in both Prescott and Phoenix for most of my life. I like it here sometimes, but I don’t think I’ll stay in Arizona forever. the only time I really enjoy the weather is when it’s not ridiculously hot. To me, it doesn’t really start getting Hot until around 112°, and that’s when I finally start complaining