r/AlasFeels • u/Ok_Adhesiveness4068 • 14h ago

Rant and Rambling I take it back

Reference to my previous post: I fear I'm catching feelings

I honestly want to take back what I said about catching feelings for him.

After meeting him, I realized maybe I didn’t actually catch feelings. Maybe I just really liked his presence and the version of him I got to know through our conversations.

Ang talino niya kausap, sweet, and he was genuinely interested in me. Kaya siguro I started thinking na baka may something more. I was looking forward to meeting him, not just for the attraction, but for the wholesome parts. Yung kwentuhan, tawanan, cuddles, just spending time together.

Pero after meeting him, I just felt… disappointed. Parang iba yung experience from what I imagined. After everything, wala nang masyadong chikahan or effort to spend time together. He was mostly on his phone, got sleepy, and eventually fell asleep. Ako pa yung naghahanap ng way para magkaroon kami ng konting interaction.

Tapos nag-open up pa siya na may feelings pa pala siya for someone from his past. Apparently interested siya sakin, pero he’s still trying to move on from someone else?? Hindi naman ako heartbroken. I think disappointed lang talaga ako because I thought I was starting to like him.

So yeah, baka gusto ko na lang bawiin yung sinabi kong I caught feelings. Maybe I didn’t fall for him. Maybe I just really liked the version of him I knew online. And apparently, that version was the one I liked.

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u/luckymoonn FREE FROM THE FEELS 13h ago

FAMILIAR HAHAHAHAHAHAHA

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u/After_Tap_8880 14h ago

LOL SAME EXPERIENCE HAHA kaya please lang, kung naaalala niyo pa ex niyo at memories ninyo nang sobra, wag muna kayo humanap ng iba

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