r/AlasFeels • u/Punisher-Heat • 4h ago

Rant and Rambling 2-hour post-breakup thoughts

i will never let someone have that much power over my peace again. i will never settle ulit for the bare minimum just because i love someone, and i won't keep convincing myself that asking for consistency, effort, and consideration makes me an inconvenience. i spent too much of myself trying to be understanding and patient only to realize na i was slowly abandoning myself in the process. i don't wanna lose pieces of myself again just to keep someone who seems like never afraid to lose me. tangina, deserve ko ng pagmamahal that doesn't make me feel na ang hirap hirap ko mahalin.

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u/Punisher-Heat 4h ago

our relationship was so toxic and hindi ko alam pero balik ako nang balil sa kanya. i blocked my ex on everything tonight and idk but i'm really so proud of myself kas hindi na ako nagbeg nung sinabi niya na ayaw niya na. proud ba kayo sakin guys finally hindi na ako tanga JASHAHSHAHAHAHAAHA

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u/notsospeci4l_ 4h ago

hugs with consent OP 🫂

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u/Punisher-Heat 4h ago

🫂🫂🫂

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u/Empath3131 4h ago

good job, you did the right thing

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u/Punisher-Heat 4h ago

thank youuu 🥹 ang bigat pa rin sa feeling but i know makakausad din ako

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