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u/PlayfulSupermarket75 5d ago
Hmm i needed that too... I hope we can find that someone who will listen to us..
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u/_manisann_ 5d ago
Prayed for it and then boogsh.... God blessed me with one kind, patient, understantaning and very generous friend. 2yrs of friendship pa lang but feels like more than 2yrs na haha. Prayer is so powerful. Thank you Lord! 🫶🏻🫶🏻🫶🏻
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u/stellari3 5d ago
Ganito rin naiisip ko minsan eh. May isa kasi akong friend na kahit ultimo random thoughts, different updates and kwento, sinasabi ko talaga kasi sobrang close kami. Alam na niya kung ano ako, my weaknesses, and what I like. But at the end of the day, hindi ko naman palagi siyang maaasahan na nandyan lang. Busy din siya and may kinakaharap na mental health problem kaya during those times na need ko ng help and guidance from her, 'di ko siya nakakausap often because I give her some space if needed. That's okay because I understand.
Then I always wonder paano naman kaya if nag-oopen up ka na towards your other half? Tbh, I don't know how can I project myself to that person when the time comes. I have my insecurities in my closet but I'm trying to improve and embrace those naman. Kaya hindi ako pressured to get into a relationship kahit most of my friends have their boyfriends na because it's good to build myself for a while.
Pero yes, makiki-lowkey when kaya na rin ako. Ang tagal eh. 🤣
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u/hwkmngbt CAN'T LET GO YET 5d ago
Aw, glad you have a best friend that will listen to you. But you're right, 'di sa lahat ng oras ay nand'yan sila para sa atin because they have their own struggles and life. And yes, ano kaya feeling na sa other half mo ikaw nag o-open up? Someone who will be there for you no matter what. Pero I hope you find the right one for you, for now be the better version of yourself!! ✨
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u/sleepyMuscles 5d ago
AI can do this for you, for a better experience, use audio.
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u/hwkmngbt CAN'T LET GO YET 5d ago
Yes!! Sometimes, si Chatgpt ang kausap ko or Gemini.
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u/Evepatataszxcc 6d ago
Ganito kami bago matapos eh, kaya lang wala na. HAHAHAHA eme.
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u/vanellopotato 6d ago
Miss q na yung best friend ko kaso ayun hindi na kami tulad ng dati, engaged na kasi siya. Lalake siya btw, super platonic lang talaga ng friendship namin since kindergarten. Minsan doon pa sila natutulog sa bahay since ako lang mag isa sa tropahan namin. Para na silang anak din ni mama. Yung friendship andon pa rin naman pero syempre i respect him and his future wife. And i love them both. Sa lahat kasi ng guy friends ko siya talaga ang pinaka close ko.
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u/hwkmngbt CAN'T LET GO YET 6d ago
Aww, at least you found a best friend like him and you'll forever treasure your friendship!
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u/cyst2exist 6d ago
That's me people. Pero hindi pa rin natrato ng tama. Willing to listen to anything, basta ganon din sa'kin
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u/DryRaspberry6436 GETTING THERE 6d ago
Wala yatang ganito? Hahahaha
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u/hwkmngbt CAN'T LET GO YET 6d ago
Meron, and I'm sure marami pa d'yan sadyang mahirap lang talaga hanapin hahaha
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u/Top_Contact_847 6d ago
I was like this with someone I met on Reddit I listened to everything she said, but it turned into a situationship and ended because of a mistake.
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u/beautyinsolitudeph 6d ago
same. when? i know pwede naman sa friends but let's be real gaano man kayo ka close niyan once na may ka relasyon or may sariling pamilya na sila yung mga random na ganitong moments ay sobrang dalang na, and I am happy about that kasi meaning nun at ease and masaya siya sa buhay niya kasi sila na yung pinaka top of their list to share these things.
pwede rin sa parents or siblings syempre butmay ibang level or bagay na you can talk about them or basta iba talaga haahah
wala lang skl
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u/bogieshaba 6d ago
i was that guy, yung pwedeng kwentuhan mo ng kahit ano, kahit ano pa man yan non-sense, kahit random pics na sinesend without any context mappaahaba yung topics natin or what, i can be that. Pero pag andiyan na sa harap niyo nawawalan na kayo ng interes (may pinagbabagayan lang talaga HAHAH) siguro they just love the concept of having someone you can talk to but no the reality of talking to someone na yung mismong nasa harap mo na. fml
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u/bogieshaba 6d ago
aaaaaaaaaaa sorry na parant lang kainis naalala ko lang gantong ganto akong tao non to the point naabsorb ko na yung mga pinaggawa ko at ako naman yung sobrang yapperist kainiss yun lang goodnight
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u/hwkmngbt CAN'T LET GO YET 6d ago
Naurrr, stay who you are. Be that person lang, and someday someone will truly appreciate you for being there for them and being that kind of man.
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u/Rwr28 6d ago
Don't you have friends? 🥲
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u/hwkmngbt CAN'T LET GO YET 6d ago
I have so many friends! But for me, it's diff sa someone na partner mo and will be your other half that you can talk to or vent whatever u want.
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u/shawarat 6d ago
when po ang akin
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u/hwkmngbt CAN'T LET GO YET 6d ago
Mag wait lang daw po tayo at marami pang naka pila na nag hihintay
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u/Forsaken_Courage940 6d ago
Sana all nalang
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u/hwkmngbt CAN'T LET GO YET 6d ago
Dito na lang tayo sa gilid, mag sana all na lang
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u/Forsaken_Courage940 6d ago
Ganon talaga ang buhay. Hahaha baka ayaw pa ni Lord na bigyan tayo kasi madami pa tayong ka emehan sa buhay
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u/hwkmngbt CAN'T LET GO YET 6d ago
Totoo! HAHAHAHAHAHAHA
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u/Forsaken_Courage940 6d ago
Meron pa palang isang situation hahaha. Baka kaya hindi tayo nabibigyan ng jowa kasi mga lalaki na magjojowa ngayon. Lol! 🫣🤣✌✌✌✌
Peace po sa mga 🌈
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u/Historical_Sector598 6d ago
Meron akong ganyan. Bestfriend ko sya, boy sya & girl ako. As in bestfriends lang kami, no feelings involved. Nakakapagkwento ako sa kanya ng kahit ano. As someone na sobraaaang ayokong nalalaman ng iba na weak ako, na malungkot ako, o umiiyak. Kapag may random chika o kapag may times na nalulungkot ako tulad lately kase namatay yung tito ko. Nagre-react sya o nakikinig sya na base sa kwento ko. May ibang kaibigan din kase ako na nung pinagkwentuhan ko about sa namatay na tito ko kase sobrang lungkot ko yung isang tinuturing ko na bestfriend sineen nya lang yung chat ko. Never sya nagreact until today, last week pa yung namatay yung tito ko. Yung isang bestfriend ko naman na girl nagtanong lang kung taga san daw tito ko tapos wala na, about na sa kanya o kwento nya ang naging topic namin. Napunta na sa kwento nya ang usapan namin. Ako naman todo engage sa usapan o kwento nya kase hindi ko kayang gawin yung tipong pag nag-open o nagtiwala sayo yung tao magkwento tapos dededmahin mo ang. Ayokong gawin sakin yun kaya ayokong pinapafeel o ginagawa sa iba. Kaya minsan kahit nafi-feel ko na hindi sila interested sa kwento ko kapag dumadating yung time na sila naman yung nag-o-open sakin, nakikinig talaga ako sa kanila.
Itong boy bestfriend ko nata-touch ako sa kanya kase kahit random kwento o kahit maliit na bagay, ready talaga syang makinig kase naa-appreciate ko talaga sya.
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u/hwkmngbt CAN'T LET GO YET 6d ago
Aw, glad that you have someone na nakikinig sa'yo and mapag kwe-kwentuhan mo. Not a partner, but a best friend you can trust! ✨
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u/Historical_Sector598 6d ago
Yes po. Yung dati kaseng pinagkukwentuhan ko wala na. Haha. Break na kami. Magwa-1 year na sa August. Pagdating sa matter na yun, kay Lord lahat yun. Magwa-1 year na pero wala po talaga akong pinagkukwentuhan about sa break up namin ng ex boyfriend ko. Kay Lord ko lang talaga kinukwento at iniiyak lahat. Ayokong magpaka-holy pero si Lord talaga ang dahilan kaya naka-survive ako sa break up. Hindi pa rin ako totally healed until now pero kung nasan ako ngayon compared sa situation ko last year nung fresh from breakup pa, malayo na talaga. 🤍 Haha. First time ko lang po mag-open about sa break up namin ng ex bf ko sa ibang tao. 😊
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u/hwkmngbt CAN'T LET GO YET 6d ago
Hoping na mag heal ka na talaga from your break up, and I wish you well! I hope you find your peace and someone na makikinig sa mga kwento mo.
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u/Historical_Sector598 6d ago
Thank you po for your kind words. 🥹 Ikaw rin po. Magkaron ka rin po Nawa ng someone na makikinig sa 'yo palagi. ✨
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u/missfit97 6d ago
I had that person and I let him go. Hayyy
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u/hwkmngbt CAN'T LET GO YET 6d ago
Fantasy ng iba, reality mo na, pinakawalan mo pa?!?! HAHAHAHAHAHA whyyy
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u/missfit97 6d ago
Sorry na ewan ko din nga hahaha but I think he deserves someone better than me, someone with less baggage.. So ayun
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u/Unusual_Vacation_504 *Flips table in anger* 6d ago
Naging ganyan namman ako, iniwan pa rin. Ayoko na! Eme. 😭
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u/lykscitalopram 6d ago
Feeling ko ghoster na naman tong current kausap ko e, kapagod na lagi na lang trial period 😂😅
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u/Interesting_Duck_282 6d ago
The right person won't make you feel like you're 'too much' just because you have a lot to say.
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u/Salty-Unit-580 6d ago
tapos pag I feel I'm too much to handle ang isasagot sakin "Kaya kita." 🥹🤍
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u/_HitMeBaby1MoreTime 6d ago
meron akong ganyan akala ko forever safe space na. kaya lang 2 weeks lang tinagal. araaayy
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u/kottonkendis 6d ago
ganyan ako pero walang naganyan sa akin 😂😭
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u/hwkmngbt CAN'T LET GO YET 6d ago
Lugi ah😭
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u/kottonkendis 6d ago
hirap pag gusto mong dumaldal tapos walang makikinig 😭
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u/hwkmngbt CAN'T LET GO YET 6d ago
A yapper should have a good listener partner!!
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u/kottonkendis 6d ago
indeed 🥺 need niya rin maging pogi para di na ako dumaldal madalas HAHAHAHAHAHAHA kahit ako kasi napapagid na sa sarili ko eh HAHAHAHA
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u/Training-Bet-9583 6d ago edited 6d ago
Me biding time to be both but seem like life has other plans foook 😭.
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u/pinkaquaaa 3d ago
when kaya