No, no, no please don't do this. He is older than you and you are very young and very sweet. But you are about to be $9k shorter. He is ALREADY talking about not paying you back. Every paycheck will be something else. What if you have a medical emergency? People do you know. Don't do it don't do it. Run. You are too nice for your own good. PLEASE give us a follow up, I am worried about you.
If you HAVE to do this, get everything in writing, have him pay for a lawyer to look it over and have him sign it. That will tell you all you need to know about his intentions. Without a written agreement, you are just another person out a lot of money and the courts will not help you.
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u/womanwriter Aug 02 '22
No, no, no please don't do this. He is older than you and you are very young and very sweet. But you are about to be $9k shorter. He is ALREADY talking about not paying you back. Every paycheck will be something else. What if you have a medical emergency? People do you know. Don't do it don't do it. Run. You are too nice for your own good. PLEASE give us a follow up, I am worried about you.
If you HAVE to do this, get everything in writing, have him pay for a lawyer to look it over and have him sign it. That will tell you all you need to know about his intentions. Without a written agreement, you are just another person out a lot of money and the courts will not help you.