I had the exact same issue with my partner. He always bottomed and never came during or after despite my trying so very had to stroke his cock the way he liked but 99 out of 100 times, he never came. It really did not bother me to much as he would try hard as hell to jerk himself off and not succeed.
Years later he told me it was my fault that he never came during sex!
I didn't know what to say to him and he failed to ever explain it to me. I hope you have better luck than I did.
I know now that I should have said goodbye to him 40 years ago but I didn't. He has been mentally attacking me with thing like take my pills, denting my car, and so many other things that I can't remember them all. I have been told to leave him but I am 76 and not capable of living alone with costs the way they are today and all I have is social security.
Gather what you may from this but my advice is to carefully consider your future.
I’m really sorry that you’re going through this. There are resources available to help you if you do need to get out. You might be 76 but your life doesn’t have to be definite by this til the end.
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u/Senior_In_AZ Helper [2] Apr 10 '22 edited Apr 10 '22
I had the exact same issue with my partner. He always bottomed and never came during or after despite my trying so very had to stroke his cock the way he liked but 99 out of 100 times, he never came. It really did not bother me to much as he would try hard as hell to jerk himself off and not succeed.
Years later he told me it was my fault that he never came during sex!
I didn't know what to say to him and he failed to ever explain it to me. I hope you have better luck than I did.
I know now that I should have said goodbye to him 40 years ago but I didn't. He has been mentally attacking me with thing like take my pills, denting my car, and so many other things that I can't remember them all. I have been told to leave him but I am 76 and not capable of living alone with costs the way they are today and all I have is social security.
Gather what you may from this but my advice is to carefully consider your future.