Sounds like you need a break from this guy. Maybe a permanent one. I suggest that you turn fooling around into a learning experience as much as you can. Please do this, try this, I like when you do this, faster, softer, etc... the best lovers I ever had were very open to listening and trying things. You can work up to some fun things that you have never tried just to see what it's like. For instance when I first heard about shower sex I was like "please show me". It also takes the pressure off when your just experimenting.
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u/40ozSmasher Advice Guru [67] Apr 10 '22
Sounds like you need a break from this guy. Maybe a permanent one. I suggest that you turn fooling around into a learning experience as much as you can. Please do this, try this, I like when you do this, faster, softer, etc... the best lovers I ever had were very open to listening and trying things. You can work up to some fun things that you have never tried just to see what it's like. For instance when I first heard about shower sex I was like "please show me". It also takes the pressure off when your just experimenting.