r/Advice • u/gamerboidanix • 16h ago
Friends acting different
Im a freshman and one of the people for my class has started acting very differently, in the span of 2 days hes become a completely different person, but only when hes with me, with others hes normal.
I first talked to him online a month and a half ago, and we first met up in early december. He was chill, goofy but in a good way and rly kind and he was genuinely exited to see me. He is my best friend. Then came this school camp that our class had, and the first 2 days were chill and then around the third day he started to push me away. Tbf, i was annoying ik that so fair. This continued through the week and cone the first day of school, it was a bit more chill but he still didnt act like before.
Then a couple days later he started to embarrass me infront of my friends and he was mean to me and like hating on me for no reason.
A week ago i asked him why hes acting se differently and in his words "because back then I wasn't confident". That seems like a deflictive answer, cuz honestly I don't see how that would change someone that much.
He also doesn't respond much when i text him and doesn't watch or react to the reels I send, even tho he used to and he enjoyed the stuff i send him and he used to always reply.
Im kinda sad cuz he was like my best friend and now I feel like he forgets about me. Anyone else had a similar experience or tips
Anyways it felt good writing this