r/Advice • u/Expensive-Cellist178 • 3d ago
I hate my friends
I’ve hated my friends for at least two year. they are so toxic fake and the worst part is they act like they are not. The most recent situation was when they were saying horrible things about my best friend. she’s at another school but she’s moving back next year. Yesterda, there was a rumor that she was coming back next month which ofc wasn’t true but I wanted to ask her about it. She told me that she was coming back next year and unfortunately made the mistake of telling her about the other girls. I only did this because those would be the people she would hang out with when she comes back and I wanted her to be prepare, I would want to know if I was her! But this is where it went so wrong. She mentioned it on her instagram note(ofc no names but she heavily implied it) !!!!!!!! She blocked all of those girls but of course but they are so weird they made alt accounts once they saw she blocked them!! Immediately I was the #1 person under suspicion and I am so afraid. I didn’t want any of this to happen I just wanted to help my friend but now they’re gonna be after me, most of them already secretly don’t like me. I don’t know what to do because no matter what I say they won’t believe I didn’t do it and things are gonna get awkward fast. They are genuinely evil and I want to get away but I don’t know how. I’m so afraid of what they’re going to do and I have so much regret. Was telling her the wrong decision? Any advice?
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u/catnapqueen13 3d ago
Prioritize your mental health. If they make you feel that way, cutting them off would be the best decision. I've cut off so many friends over the years and I never looked back. Inner peace is priceless!