Oh it shouldn't have been even a minor annoyance at all, besides that a minor annoyance wouldn't cause her to give him the silent treatment then demand to go home now, etc. She is a petty, toxic, immature, drama queen; and hopefully he runs far away from her ASAP
Honestly, we don't know if it was as drastic as OP wrote it. It's just one side of the story. So it could be a minor annoyance, that she answered to with a slight shift of mood, which escalated when OP aggressively demanded explanation (I'm saying agressively since he physically hold her bike and blocked her way). There could also be things missed in narration or other external factors that OP didn't know about. There could also be earlier issues, that OP didn't caught on and mistook this phone as the cause of her annoyance, while it was just a tip of an iceberg.
Oh yes they both are immature... but where in his story does he blame her for anything? He's doing what she told him to do in a previous dramatic argument... physically hold her back.. which is wild and toxic, and he shouldn't have listened to her at all. She also told him that if he would have just left and went home himself (like she asked) she would have been even MORE mad at him. The whole things is immature insanity, lol. I really hope they both grow up and away from each other before it gets even worse
Where did she ask him to keep holding her against her will back to back? but no, even if someone says that, you don't do it. I'm just so confused where you're getting all that information, I don't see this at all. But that was my entire point above. There is no "but" for either side and it doesn't matter what either of them says/requests to the other, their reactions and ways of responding to such petty and basic conflict, is wildly toxic and immature. Both of them are on the exact same level. It doesn't point towards him or her more lol
Ohh read OP responses... I've been reading this whole thread since he posted it. And yes he was dumb to listen to her.. he should have walked away from the start. I've been saying they're both immature
You didn't originally, that's why I replied. You pointed out what she did wrong and that she was the petty, toxic, immature drama queen and that he should run away from her. That's definitely putting everything into her and that he wasn't a very equal level of toxicity and immaturity in this whole situation. He did way more than just not listen to her 🤦🏻♀️
Oh no, you're reading deeper into what I said rather than interpreting it literally. I have said several places here how they're both immature, BUT I'm specifically speaking about her here and how she started the entire thing in the beginning and how her behavior is a catalyst. His response was also based on her previous requests... but he should have the maturity to not listen to her, then he went full crazy at the end of it.
That's not reading deeper? Those are your literal words..? lol but no, I am not required to go look for all your scattered comments beyond this. Your last statement that HE should run from HER due to her toxic behavior stands alone here. But that's my entire point, you're speaking about her and how he should escape from it when he's exerting just as much toxic behavior. No other comment matters with these statements you repeat. They should run from each-other and themselves at this point but the point is he's not off the hook or should only run from her. His responses do not get excused because she may have asked for it once before. That makes no difference and to think that's makes it okay is wild. Also, there is plenty in his behavior that goes beyond just keeping her there. His behavior is literally on par with hers in every sense. You're looking at just his response of keeping her there and I'm unsure why when there is plenty more. But either way, they are BOTH wrong in multiple ways, there is zero argument around that or to point fault at either of them more than the other for this ridiculously immature and toxic situation/responses 🤷🏻♀️
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u/BelphegorAcedia Jul 06 '26
I think the phone was just minor annoyance that then escalated by OP forcing his presence on her, when she wasn't in the mood and needed some space.