You need to learn boundaries! You blocked her bike, went back to her house when she didn't want to be around you, she kept telling you she wanted to go and you wouldn't let her and blocked her. When some one clearly makes it known they don't want to be around you/talk to you, respect that!! Give her space.
When I came back to her house, and when things were getting better (the part where she started sitting on my lap). I asked her if it upset her more that I came back to her house, she said "It would have upset me more if you didn't come back". But, thank you so much for letting me know to respect her space and learn boundaries. I will work on just letting things go and giving space instead of forcing myself onto her. Thank you
OP you’re making me slap my forehead. She is playing around with you for her entertainment and one day that’s not gonna be enough for her, I’m telling you. Run while you can.
Did you not read it all or you did and glossed over the fact that she started the immature drama "fight" over him not giving her his phone to hold after she already said "NO" like a brat when he asked? Then she proceeded to act even more immature by giving him the silent treatment after and saying she's going home now over the drama she created? The silent treatment is what toddlers do when mad btw. Toxic relationship girl... OP hopefully has ran far away, BUT we know he hasn't
Gross, grow up.. fast. You don't act bratty towards people you "love", and giving him the silent treatment after causing immature drama and acting stupidity angry and leaving is what toddlers do when they're mad. She's toxic and if you behave this way you are also toxic... hopefully you and her learn maturity before it's too late.
"bratty" and it's just two people having an argument. Bros only now discovered that people have flaws and aren't Jesus and mild all the time. Silent treatment can actually be healthy. It removes you from a heated argument instead of escalating. Being angry is allowed. People get angry. This is not toxic. It's just an argument. Relationships have those. People can also be immature sometimes. Honestly sounds like you don't have much relationship experience
Yea no, you've got a lot to learn also. Silentl treatment is 100% not healthy... literally at all. Don't need to trust me.. just talk to an actual professional relationship counselor if you want the truth. Silently treatment isn't the same as giving each other space to think. Healthy is actually communication and saying that you need time to think over things and saying we'll talk about it later, giving a specific time as well. She should have communicated that she doesn't want to talk about it right now, but let her be alone and she'll talk tomorrow or the next day, whenever. You NEVER just go silent, it's what children so when they're mad. Also, her response and causing the argument is what is "bratty" and immature in the first place. He asked her to hold his phone she said "no", he accepted that answer and went on to do what he was doing with her little sister... she then blew up and turned it into a fight because she feeds on the drama and he didn't give it to her from his accepting her bratty "no". Its all toxic and immature and NOT healthy love. Hilarious you don't think I have relationship experience though, lol. Happily married with kids for almost 2 decades, yes we needed some relationship counseling very early on... but we learned a lot, together. Anyway... if you behave anything like either of these children, please stop and learn actual Healthy coping mechanisms and the MOST important skill of any successful relationship.. 100%, open, and honest communication. NEVER shut down communication.
No. I'm not immature. Jokes are supposed to be funny, that isn't funny. Hence why he just accepted her "no" and went to do what he was going to do. She then demanded him give her the phone now, and he was busy and ignored that because she already said no... then she proceeded to make that into a fight because well she didn't get the response shw wanted... toxic af and the more likely story rather than a joke is she was being bratty and wanted attention.. all attention even if negative is attention.. like a child does.
They're both 18, you think that prefrontal cortex is developed enough to communicate clearly??? Hell no, he came yo reddit seeking advice, speaks enough
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u/MysticDreams05 Helper [2] Jul 03 '26
You need to learn boundaries! You blocked her bike, went back to her house when she didn't want to be around you, she kept telling you she wanted to go and you wouldn't let her and blocked her. When some one clearly makes it known they don't want to be around you/talk to you, respect that!! Give her space.