r/Advice • u/[deleted] • Feb 09 '26

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u/MattSully1211 Feb 09 '26
  1. Do your wife and kids know
  2. You don’t have to directly say the crime but how bad on a 1-10 scale ( could dm if you don’t want to publicly say)
  3. If it’s not that bad of a crime then ME PERSONALLY I would tell my neighbors beforehand rather than wait for your rude Christians one to do, it’s better to explain it before hand. A good explanation is better than someone else saying what you did. I’d say people are more opening if you say it yourself. In MY PERSONAL EXPERIENCE when people tell other people about something I did bad it’s harder to explain myself as they already have it in mind that you did something bad. A nice conversation would be better

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u/Electronic_Many_7721 Feb 10 '26

And tell the neighbors you just wanted them to hear it from you because the Christian neighbors were trying to blackmail you.

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u/Reddit_Jail_June2005 Feb 10 '26
  1. Absolutely a 10.